I felt like this book was more about glorifying the things we try to tell our kids not to do than about what girls are made of. I'm sure it all happens in the high school arena, but there comes a point when I have to say it should never be the norm. Lots of adult situations that are happening with teens. Read between the lines on this review (I have a few younger friends who may read this so I don't want to be too explicit, unlike the book I just read).